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Helen Lamming

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Helen Lamming, NCPS

Based in United Kingdom · 11 years of experience

Relationship and family counsellor

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At a glance

Registration
NCPS, United Kingdom (NCS23-02822)
Qualifications
NCPS
Experience
11 years
Languages
English
Based in
United Kingdom

Details come from information Helen supplied to BetterHelp.

  • Attachment-based work
  • Emotionally-focused therapy
  • Supports parenting issues

About Helen

NCPS; CPCAB membership; M.Ed in Psychology of Education; BA (Hons) Psychology. Helen Lamming has 11 years of counselling experience and over 4,000 hours of practice. She works with relationship and family concerns, intimacy-related issues, parenting and anger, and also focuses on attachment and trauma-related difficulties.

Helen uses approaches drawn from Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems. Sessions aim to help people talk through relationship patterns, communication problems and family conflicts. She also supports people managing separation, divorce, fertility issues, and complex presentations such as dissociation and codependency.

Her background includes substantial experience at Relate, where she specialised in relationship and family counselling. She holds a CPCAB Certificate of Proficiency, a Relate CPCAB Diploma in Family Counselling and a Relate CPCAB Level 5 Diploma in Relationship Counselling. Helen also has a PGCE and earlier degrees in English and History.

Helen now offers online counselling from the United Kingdom and works with both short-term and longer-term clients. She is available most afternoons, Fridays and at weekends to accommodate different schedules. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

Practical arrangements use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session via the See online counselling options button.

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It focuses on recognising attachment needs and improving responses in close relationships, which can help with intimacy and parenting concerns.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy centres on emotions in the moment and on repairing relationship bonds. It aims to help partners or individuals understand attachment-related triggers and build different ways of interacting during conflict.

Client-Centred Therapy emphasises listening and working at the client’s pace. It offers a space to reflect on feelings and choices without pressure to follow a set programme.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss needs, goals and preferences and agree together which methods to use. This is a collaborative process and can change as therapy progresses.

Helen provides online counselling only, so check which session formats are currently offered before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into busy routines, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. Registered or accredited professionals commonly use online work to keep therapy accessible while focusing on emotional and relational change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger management

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sexual assault and abuseYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Trauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she work with?

She supports relationship and family concerns, intimacy-related issues, parenting and anger, plus related areas such as attachment issues and communication problems.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her work draws on Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems to address relationship patterns and emotional processes.

How much experience does she have?

She has 11 years of counselling experience and reports over 4,000 hours of practice.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Credentials include NCPS, CPCAB Certificate of Proficiency, Relate CPCAB diplomas, and an M.Ed; she practices from the United Kingdom.

Can I see her if I live outside the UK?

International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.

Which session formats does she offer?

The biography states she now exclusively offers online counselling; confirm the current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the See online counselling options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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